There are few things in life more valuable than having a very good coach or mentor who really dares to care about you, your life, and choices and who tells you the truth.  We all have had that someone who made a large contribution to our character and life path often through tough love.  I’ll never forget my high school computer science teacher Jack Caster confronting me one day after class.  I was a class clown.  He said, “You know people are going to remember you when you’re gone.  But are they going to remember you in a positive way?”  And he just stared at me with those slate blue eyes that burrowed into my soul and from which I could not hide.

So let me ask you; People are going to remember you when you’re gone but are they going to remember you like you want to be remembered?  What type of legacy are you really leaving behind?  Is the story that you are writing the real story you’re wanting others to be reading?

I am a life coach, also called success coach or executive coach because this work is the ultimate playground and because it is my mission and purpose.  There is nothing more rewarding than working with a person and being that coach and influencer that is the catalyst to help them make positive changes in their life and results.  It is not always easy work and it requires me to continually stretch and grow and become my best.  We teach what we most need to learn and every client is my teacher in some way.

I coach clients and teach our coaches to coach clients the way I want to be coached: with a focus on results not information.  We focus on telling clients the truth, even if it’s difficult to hear and not always politically correct.  We are not just another coaching company that has great information that we throw out knowing that statistically only three percent will ever be self directed enough to use and benefit from it.  Instead we Support, Encourage, hold Accountable and Challenge (S.E.A.C.) our clients to step into their God given potential and stop making excuses as to why they can’t have a total success life.  We don’t ask for positive changes in our clients, we require them.  I guess that makes us very different.

Don’t expect to get high sounding platitudes here.  Do expect to grow.  Do expect your career and/or business to grow.  Do expect your physical health to improve.  Do expect your family relationships to grow.  Do expect your financial situation to improve.  Do expect your social life to improve.  Why should you expect all of this?  Because we teach six principles that will allow you to improve every relationship in your life, every time when you use our six total success habits.  Do expect to get uncomfortable so that you can grow beyond your comfort zone.  Everything is measured in relationship to something else.

We aren’t for everyone.  Only the true seekers and those truly committed to making positive changes in their lives and in the lives of others benefit from linking up with us.  But those who do find us tell us that we are a breath of fresh air in an industry that is often mired in feel good guru coaches, a malaise of often confusing information and companies intent on selling you the missing “secret” rather than providing you with true results.  Helping people make real changes is hard work and requires a true relationship.  We are very clear about that and we don’t’ shy away from either one but embrace both. You deserve to be loved and supported for the amazing human being you are.  You deserve to be told the truth as well.  And sometimes the truth isn’t always easy to hear but it is the only thing that sets you free in the end.

We don’t have your answers.  You do.  And if you’ll let us, we’ll help you discover those answers and solutions to your pressing problems and help you unlock your self imposed prison doors into the courtyard of liberty, joy, love, health and wealth.  You deserve them all.  But you must work for them.

God hath given all good things unto men for the price of labor. – Leonardo da Vinci

If your life is going to be your message then why not make it a great message?  Why not start right now to begin creating the legacy you want to leave behind.  Why not you?  Why not now?  If not you than who and if not now then when?  Your hourglass has a fixed amount of sand in it.  Make each grain count.

Cliff Stockamp

CEO and Mentor Coach Total Success Institute LLC

Tags: Business, Executive Coaching